Dale,
Thanks for the advice. My only problem is if I buy her a diamond, what do I have left to buy the lights? When I started this journey, she had NO interest in this obsession, (you notice I now call it an obsession and not a hobby), but lately there has been some changes. When I get one in the mail, she asks, "Don't you have one that already looks like that?". THAT'S PROGRESS! (I guess)