I couldn't agree with you more Paul.
Once in a while I find myself being the devils advocate as well (which drives my wife absolutely bonkers since she isn't use to it).
In truth what I heard wasn't what I expected from a group of lighthouse lovers like ourselves.
But I'm glad that people repond honestly to my topic. Honesty is the best policy!!
Don't apologize for a negative response, it's better than no response at all!
Keep the Flame!