Stan: I'm sorry to learn about the passing of your loved one, as well as all of the elements from Hurricane Sandy. It's heartwrenching to turn on CNN and see that so many people are still waiting on help.
I grew up on the MS Gulf Coast and went through Katrina so I can sympathize with what you guys are going through. I think EMRS and FEMA should allow Walmart to lead its departments. Throughout the U.S., Walmart has warehouses stocked with food, supplies, and generators and also have the trucks and man-power to haul it in a swift manner.
All of you in NJ & NY are in my prayers. Take care. ~Ang