I'm going to play this one safe. I think Harbour Lights is both a man and woman thing. I just think the men, such as I, get fanatical about it. For me, it filled a need. Being ex-NAVY, I was used to the sea. It was fascinating, mysterious and lonely but serving a very useful purpose. The same as I picture the lighthouse keeper. I live in the desert now, but I am still attached to the sea through my Harbour Light collection.